This is strange, the sutra, MN43 that you quoted had already mentioned that feeling, perception and consciousness are tied together.
“Feeling, perception, & consciousness are conjoined, friend, not disjoined. It is not possible, having separated them one from another, to delineate the difference among them. For what one feels, that one perceives. What one perceives, that one cognizes. Therefore these qualities are conjoined, not disjoined, and it is not possible, having separated them one from another, to delineate the difference among them.”
My Pali is no good but my experience thus far indicate this is the case. Whatever we are conscious about, we feel (pleasant/unpleasant/neutral) and perceive (good/bad/neutral). And these good/pleasant or bad/unpleasant experiences pull or push us. While neutral experiences cause boredom, restlessness or bewilderment.
This is at the mental level. Feeling and perception happens very quickly and our awareness only registers them usually after some lag. But as mentioned, even at this level, our experiences are already tainted (with good/pleasant, bad/unpleasant or neutral impressions). The consciousness that arises together with feeling and perception is also a low level one. It is unfortunate that there is only one word in Pali and English for consciousness because there are obviously different types of consciousness. Whereas, the consciousness that we are most familiar with while awake, relies on aggregating various sensory inputs, processing, enhancing and transforming those inputs before registering them in our awareness. Once, registered within the higher awareness, this is also the level where our memory faculty is accessible and further comparison, evaluation, discernment and differentiation may or may not occur. It is at this level that our views come into play. Admitting perceptions/feelings that are agreeable while filtering out those that aren’t. Consequently, this process further distorts the reality that is cognised.
We may think that at least at the physical level our perceptions and senses behave in the same way. All of us see the same things, hear the same sounds, smell the same odours and so on. Was that a blue/black or white/gold dress? But alas even here, our physical senses betrayed us.
When one realised how distorted reality is, there is a sense of uncertainty, dismay and despair. Frankly, I don't care which comes first, just let me know what's real and what's not.
Addendum
But shouldn't this order be in reverse.....a different between viññanā
and vijānāti as well saññā and sañjānāti?
I believe higher mental functions like discrimination (vijānāti) and recognition (sañjānāti) requires access to our memories which is still not available at the level where mere consciousness (viññanā) and perception (saññā) occurs. Discrimination and recognition needs information that cuts across space and time. Example, comparing this apple in my hand to the one I had last week, it is definitely looks redder, bigger and better (discrimination). Hey, I recall buying this type of apple before; it is brand XXX from France! (recognition). So, we should think of mere consciousness, perception and feeling as building blocks that form the foundations for higher level thinking, recognition and emotions.
as if vedanā, saññā and sankhārā co-arise. but are they independent of each other?
The quote of AN 6.63 confused me as it pertains to the five aggregates. I believe you mean vedanā (feeling), saññā (perception) and viññāna (consciousness albeit eye-consciousness, ear-consciousness and so on) co-arise. In any case, they are not independent as mentioned in MN43.