I have personal problems with the metta practice. I would say may I/u be happy and i woulg go in this wish fulfilment mode. Imagining myself and others happy would create a jinni in the bottle attitude. It would become this deluded practice.

1. How can i wish people to be happy when i know this wish wont come true?
2. How can i wish people to be happy whithout going into this prayer mode?

Can i use words like "i hope u be happy"? Or maybe u find joy"

Is metta hoping? Or attitude of maybes?

I have personal problems with the metta practice. I would say may I/you be happy and I would go in this wish fulfilment mode. Imagining myself and others happy would create a jinni in the bottle attitude. It would become this deluded practice.

1. How can I wish people to be happy when I know this wish wont come true?
2. How can I wish people to be happy whithout going into this prayer mode?

Can I use words like "I hope you be happy"? Or maybe I find joy"

Is metta hoping? Or attitude of maybes?