Today's "Yellow Page Teaching" from Ajahn Jayasāro
Refraining from telling lies or misrepresenting the truth is a powerful Dhamma practice. it requires a sharp and constant mindfulness. It has a strong purifying effect on the mind. Its power lies in the way that it exposes the defilements that are triggered during conversations. In determining to care for the truth and uphold it - come what way - we are able to recognize and let go of the fears and desires, the insecurities and the pride, that lie behind our small untruths and half-truths.
But an uncompromising approach to even "white" lies does not lead to a harsh, unfeeling style of speech; commitment to truth is not the only principle to be borne in mind while we are speaking. The Buddha also taught that our speech should be beneficial, appropriate to time and place, kind and polite.
Love of truth ennobles the mind. Expressing this love in our speech with skill and sensitivity is a wonderful gift we can offer all those around us on every day of the year.
Ajahn Jayasāro 24/12/22