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Oct 23, 2019 at 20:50 comment added Sue Hamilton I should clarify that. I am very capable of seeing both sides of the situation very clearly. In the case of my children cutting me out of their lives I struggled for a long time wanting them to connect. I sent many messages of love and openness ( and still do) to listen. It was a struggle until I realised that the best thing I could do was be happy in myself, and hope that their choice to not have me in their lives was a positive thing for them. I have learned to master my own feeling of ‘need’ and reconciled myself to learn to be content without them in my life.
Oct 23, 2019 at 19:34 comment added Sue Hamilton Very insightful. But it’s served me well . I’m happy in the face of what others would call adversity.
Oct 23, 2019 at 16:36 comment added ThirdPrize Possibly it's this passive response to problems that has caused the situation in the first place? There aren't many problems that can be solved by waiting for them to sort themselves out. Just a thought.
Oct 22, 2019 at 19:39 comment added Sue Hamilton An equal possibility. Fortunately I am content to sit with this without concern. Probability has shown itself too many times in my life to need to choose the answer. It chose me.
Oct 22, 2019 at 14:42 history answered ThirdPrize CC BY-SA 4.0