There are the 108 craving verbalization which will answer good householders question.
It's how ever good to relate ones actions as own and that there will be a fruit of them in the future, so the path is not one of "not mine" or "mine" extremes, but both used at proper time.
Much urged always: DON'T Waste your short lasting time of a seldom human and blessed existence!
Selves & Not-self: The Buddhist Teaching on Anatta is sure for good assistance and given for liberation.
(note that this questionGift of Dhamma is not given for trade, stacks, exchange or entertainment, but for ones work trough maccharia to escape the wheel here and liberation)