Skip to main content

Questions tagged [modern-world]

Particular issues from the modern world, which relate to or affect the practice of Buddhism. These topics include but are not limited to technological, political and consumer issues that impact on Buddhist thought and practice.

Filter by
Sorted by
Tagged with
0 votes
3 answers
52 views

What is a fake Buddhist?

What is a fake Buddhist? I am unsure what 'fake' means in this context. I don't necessarily think it's the same thing as not believing in rebirth, pretending to be enlightened, arrogance, hostility ...
fake's user avatar
  • 258
1 vote
4 answers
72 views

What do Buddhists say about fame?

Fame seems to be associated with e.g. the early zen cults that formed in china, and must have been essential to the life of buddhism, but in general I'd have thought it is frowned upon, though perhaps ...
fake's user avatar
  • 258
0 votes
2 answers
69 views

virtues other than the paramitas to practice in daily life

For some context, I have been practicing the paramitas in daily life—one each day, and then repeating them when they're done. But I felt the need to include a few other things that were missed in ...
Kobamschitzo's user avatar
1 vote
3 answers
127 views

The everyday sense that you are wasting your life

This question may seem a little new age. I am often discouraged in my life in general by the belief that I want more, nothing specific, but something is missing, perhaps a more meaningful life. Could ...
user avatar
0 votes
3 answers
57 views

Is meditation, at least meditation done right, good for mental distress, even that brought about by madness?

Is meditation, at least meditation done right, good for mental distress, even that brought about by madness? On the one hand, some buddhist meditation teachers do focus on relaxation and mindfulness ...
user avatar
0 votes
2 answers
112 views

Is the dharma thicker than both blood and water?

I’m the only Buddhist in my family and there are very few Buddhists in my community. To make matters worse, the closest Buddhist temple to me is a New Kadampa Tradition meditation center. Because of ...
Gavin R.'s user avatar
2 votes
4 answers
1k views

Buddhist attitude(s) towards failures in life

Perhaps for the enlightened ones, those on the path to enlightenment and those aiming for higher goals, worldly pursuits are not issues of concern. But they are important to many ordinary folks. What ...
Desmon's user avatar
  • 1,389
2 votes
4 answers
577 views

Denial and ego-defence

I've never been taught psychology so I'm no expert but modern vocabulary includes the words "denial" (like "in denial") and "ego defence". "Denial" appears in ...
ChrisW's user avatar
  • 46.7k
4 votes
7 answers
3k views

Help with alcoholism?

How or what can you advise, or what might help, anyone who drinks too much, or who may want to stop drinking? Maybe based on experience and not only on Dhamma-theory (but an answer must include at ...
ChrisW's user avatar
  • 46.7k
2 votes
5 answers
201 views

What are the cause(s) of a biased or sticky mind?

Over the years I observed in myself and others a tendency to get stuck (to be biased) in our views, thoughts and behaviour. This appears to be the result of cognitive biases in the mind resulting in ...
Desmon's user avatar
  • 1,389
2 votes
3 answers
214 views

Misunderstanding of the Buddha’s words on karma

I have often seen the Anguttara Nikaya 4.77 being quoted as in this post against pondering on the precise workings of karma. My question: is there a misunderstanding of the Buddha’s words thus ...
Desmon's user avatar
  • 1,389
1 vote
2 answers
95 views

How can one function in society (as a householder) without actively arousing (possibly strong) desire, or aversion

If we have no desire or aversion, how can we get up and clean our home, our body, eat more than is needed, or go to work? If one has indifference towards experiences and/or is equanimous to ...
Remyla's user avatar
  • 724
1 vote
1 answer
76 views

How should lay buddhists respond to amoral people?

How should lay buddhists respond to amoral people, people who keep generating bad karma for themselves but don't believe they've done anything wrong at all, especially if they have the power to get ...
user avatar
0 votes
2 answers
71 views

Is it important to have a traditional understanding of Buddhism?

Is it important to have a traditional understanding of Buddhism or is avoiding so called "heresies" enough to make sure you are not distorting, undermining etc., the dharma? Take the idea of ...
user avatar
2 votes
2 answers
233 views

How is Buddhism structured (in Japan)?

How is Buddhism structured? All I really know if you have lay people, priests, monks, and in some places masters or grand masters (I don't know if these are the same), and there are various different ...
user avatar
2 votes
1 answer
86 views

Complex lifestyle and leads us to get on the correct path

Today, we are living in very complex world. Various lifestyles inspire us greatly. So as being a modern layperson, it is difficult to know good karma and bad one. How would I will be on good path and ...
CPMM's user avatar
  • 21
5 votes
5 answers
219 views

Non-striving and happiness

I have only an informal understanding of Buddhism, so please excuse the informal language used in this question. My intent is to understand Buddhism better, and I welcome any answers or resources that ...
Jim's user avatar
  • 51
8 votes
8 answers
2k views

When it comes to commercial products, is there harm to choosing a more beautiful and well-designed option?

I am new to buddhism and this is my first question here. I hope I can provide something of value and that I am clear in my phrasing. So I have recently started learning about the teachings of the ...
Juckix's user avatar
  • 123
3 votes
6 answers
162 views

Are lives of people who have, by birth or design, large amounts of money, worth more to the Buddha, than the poor?

Are lives of people who have, by birth or design, large amounts of money, worth more to the Buddha, than the poor? I don't actually know enough about the history of Buddhism to answer that question!
user avatar
1 vote
2 answers
82 views

Is even Buddhahood itself a short straw next to material wealth and pleasure and fame?

Is even Buddhahood itself a short straw next to material wealth and pleasure and fame? The Buddha could have been a wheel turning monarch, and was in deed born a prince. So perhaps his decision isn't ...
user avatar
0 votes
3 answers
126 views

Ghost or horror stories/videos are appropriate during Pandemic moment?

There are more and more horror movie during pandemic and tension moment. Hong Kong is one of the example before riots recently. Pretty much of productions of horror or ghost movie produced because the ...
little star's user avatar
2 votes
4 answers
173 views

Has the Buddha taught anything about how one should approach fixing society?

Has the Buddha taught anything about how one should approach fixing society? Does the Buddha advocate for striving to make society better? Does the Buddha have any practices for groups and societies ...
Lowbrow's user avatar
  • 7,212
4 votes
2 answers
167 views

Father-Son relationship

I have a father who left me when I was 5. He moved out of state when I was 7. We saw each other once every year or two. He returned to my area when I was 13. By the time I was 21, we still had a very ...
Grateful Practicioner's user avatar
1 vote
2 answers
206 views

Is it conventional to use third-person speech when conversing with a monk?

In this comment, Samana Johann wrote, worthy to raise a question on it and it's perfect training to use only 3-person and no calling of names, adressing just proper positions The topic is, using &...
ChrisW's user avatar
  • 46.7k
2 votes
5 answers
732 views

Buddhism and racism

How does the problem of racism relate to Buddha-Dharma? Can Buddhism teach us something about racism? Is there something in the teachings or texts addressing the topic, directly or indirectly?
Andriy Volkov's user avatar
  • 58.6k
2 votes
3 answers
148 views

How do I develop a healthier relationship with images?

I doubt that anybody has asked this question before, which is why I thought to write it down. Since I was thirteen-years-old, I have saved a lot of photographs from the internet on the cloud (i.e., ...
AdditionalDetail's user avatar
2 votes
3 answers
488 views

Must I continue a relationship with my abusive parents?

My parents were physically and mentally abusive to me as a child. As an adult, they have never recognized what they have done to me and even try to guilt me into having a relationship with them that I ...
Kaleigh Day's user avatar
1 vote
5 answers
222 views

Do any modern ("free-thinking") monks or monastic orders discard elements of the Vinaya?

Yesterday I spent some time studying one of the Vinayas and, completely honestly, I couldn't help but think that some of the rules were shockingly superstitious even by the standards of most of the ...
some American white lady's user avatar
1 vote
2 answers
168 views

How are expectations and responsibilities seen in Buddhism?

These two things seem to be closely knitted together, sometimes contradictory and can be found especially in a professional setting. For example when a group of people work in a project, They have ...
Lee's user avatar
  • 11
1 vote
3 answers
289 views

Does Dhp 256-257 condone judging others?

In several answers on this site, judging others as judge or jury is looked upon unfavourably, for both lay people and monks. It is often said that the one who passes a guilty or innocent verdict, ...
ruben2020's user avatar
  • 37.2k
3 votes
3 answers
297 views

Meditating on Public Transport

I saw there was one post about mindfulness on public transport. However, I felt these posts dealt with being mindful on public transport rather than meditation. I wonder: Is meditation itself ...
user avatar
5 votes
4 answers
190 views

Audio guided meditation recommendations?

I know how many of you feel about guided meditations, but I am introducing meditation to some fellow university friends, and one of them is telling me he is having an incredibly hard time while ...
Pedro Fontanarrosa's user avatar
3 votes
3 answers
201 views

How do you pray correctly in Buddhism?

I have been calling myself a Buddhist for as long as I can remember, but I have never done it right. I notice that my mom would chant the mantras from the book, while usually I would just say anything ...
Tina's user avatar
  • 31
0 votes
1 answer
84 views

Is it a sin to organize liqour & meat on cutomer request as a prt of my job?

I'm interested in Event planning & if I take up that job I'll have to make necessary arrangements for liqour & meat to be served at events upon client request. I'd like to know if that is ...
Amaani's user avatar
  • 313
7 votes
3 answers
155 views

A noobs balance. Where to go on my journey?

I’ll keep this short and sweet. Recently I’ve been pondering the idea of becoming a professor of Eastern Religions, particularly Buddhism. I can’t put my finger on it exactly, but something about ...
ch_da_guru13's user avatar
0 votes
5 answers
342 views

How to reconcile non-attachment in a Type-A, North American culture where work is life?

I've been meditating on-and-off for years. However, the non-attachment preached by the Buddha conflicts with the environment around me. I'm in a large urban center in North America. Achievement is ...
lifer's user avatar
  • 9
4 votes
9 answers
2k views

How to mitigate the negative karmic effect of killing

I'm a graduate student studying plant-insect interactions. My research, necessary for my degree, requires me to collect (kill) a few hundred insects. Are there any suttas, or general Buddhist ...
Ian's user avatar
  • 2,673
4 votes
5 answers
134 views

Spiritualism VS layman's path

I have followed the Dharma for the last ten+ years, and have been married for thirty. l have reached a stage where my progression is noticeably obstructed by the Layman's world. I've talked to my ...
acutekarma's user avatar
1 vote
1 answer
93 views

Ambitions - Are they Real or just an Illusion

Do our passions and ambitions need to be fulfilled or is it just an illusion created by our mind? According to the dhamma, is it considered to be helpful or unhelpful to fulfill goals?
RBK's user avatar
  • 191
0 votes
2 answers
341 views

Are Buddhists hypnotists?

Are Buddhists hypnotists? I'm being a little facetious, but not entirely. Hypnotism is a strange mental phenomena, and I wondered how much interaction, in any tradition, is based in similar mental ...
user avatar
3 votes
2 answers
714 views

Is it disrespectful or unlawful to have dharma tattoo in Sri Lanka?

I read sometime ago that a woman with a Buddha tattoo was deported from Sri Lanka. Is it illegal because it's a Buddha image? Or other symbols like the dharma wheel are not allowed as tattoo as well? ...
user13098's user avatar
4 votes
4 answers
401 views

Why should one not address a venerable as friend?

Here is a quote from MN 26: One, standing up to greet me, received my robe & bowl. Another spread out a seat. Another set out water for washing my feet. However, they addressed me by name and as '...
ChrisW's user avatar
  • 46.7k
2 votes
3 answers
620 views

Duty to parents?

There are maybe 80 questions about 'parents' already but perhaps this one hasn't been asked. What are a Buddhist's responsibilities or duties towards their parents? Listen to advice? Do what they ...
ChrisW's user avatar
  • 46.7k
3 votes
3 answers
379 views

Importance of good moral conduct

What is the importance of this concept compared to other practices, such as meditation in the Buddhist way of life?
Hari's user avatar
  • 484
0 votes
1 answer
62 views

How is dharma formed?

I believe that the word 'dharma' (among other things) refers to the constituent elements of a body and mind, and that the Buddhist should find those dharmas void of a person, and perhaps any ...
user avatar
2 votes
4 answers
1k views

Does Buddhism have an answer to disturbing sexual fantasies?

I have extreme sexual fantasies that hurt me (submission, candaulism, etc.). Because of the internet and pornography many young people have increasingly extreme fantasies, and when they are attached ...
Youngman's user avatar
2 votes
2 answers
251 views

What does 'corrupted' (world or society) mean?

Several people (several questions and answers) in this topic use the word "corrupted", especially applied to "the world" and "society". What does the word "corrupted" mean? Does it have a standard ...
ChrisW's user avatar
  • 46.7k
1 vote
3 answers
1k views

How does Buddhism see Required Military Service?

I live in the United States, where although unlikely, a draft could happen. There are also many other countries that require military service in some capacity. I know Buddhism generally opposes ...
dimwittedanimal's user avatar
2 votes
6 answers
230 views

Reincarnation and stem cell research

How do we apply reincarnation to phenomena such as reproduction by binary fission (amoeba) and creating animals like Dolly the sheep from a single cell? Also, why the population is rising in the ...
Janaki's user avatar
  • 21
0 votes
4 answers
125 views

Is Lineage vital?

Lineage is important to teaching by gurus and the succession of teaching because it helps ensure that the teaching is complete and intact, and that the teachers are sincere. One must be granted ...
user avatar