Growing up in the Roman Catholic tradition, we were encouraged to go to confession (penance) on a regular basis for reconciliation and to be absolved of sins. In Buddhism, the only mention of confession I've seen is in regard to a practice for monks prior to the reciting of the patimokkha. I understand there is no idea of absolving sins in Buddhism, but why is it considered benefical or useful for monks to confess but not for lay people to do the same? I'm assuming there is some sense of unburdening in the confession process and wondering what serves that function for lay people? Thank you.
This is a good question; if the monks can confess their "sins", why can't lay people?
On the one hand, monastic confession is a product of the rigidity of monastic practice, which requires some formal means of realignment. But on the other hand, reaffirming one's determination to keep precepts is a great practice for all Buddhists.
The standard practice for lay people in Theravada Buddhism to correct a broken precept is to simply retake the entire set of precepts (five or eight). There are standard religious formulae for this, so that might be a similar concept to a confession.
Beyond that, though, I think there is less need for Catholic confession since there is less sense of "sin" in evil deeds; since our concept of morality is utilitarian in the sense of "it's evil because it brings suffering", there isn't the sense of intrinsic "sinfulness" of a deed, and hence there seems to be less of the shame and guilt associated with evil in Catholicism.
So, the practical equivalent to confession in our tradition is probably just talking with a teacher about your problems; e.g., rather than confessing you drank alcohol, you would discuss your alcohol addiction or your view that alcohol brings happiness.
The experience I have of confession within Buddhism is mostly within the context of a ritual. I practice with the Triratna Buddhist and in one of our more lengthy rituals we have a section on confession of faults part of which goes
The evil that I have heaped up
Through my ignorance and foolishness –
Evil in the world of everyday experience,
As well as evil in understanding and intelligence
All that I acknowledge to the Protectors.
The ritual is based on the Bodhicaryavatara an 8th century Mahayana text by Santideva. The Bodhicaryavatara has a section on the confession of faults. This goes on at greater length on the same themes for example
Overwhelmed by ignorant delusion,
I celebrated the harm that was done.
But now I see it all was done in error,
And before the buddhas, sincerely I confess.
So the notion of recognising on and confessing faults does exists within Buddhism. I'm not an expert on comparative religion but I know that the concept of sin doesn't really exist in Buddhism. Actions are skillful (kusala) or unskillful (akusala) rather than sinful or not. Also it's less clear who you would be confessing to. So any notion of confession would be necessarily different in Buddhism.
On a personal note, it has been suggested to me that the proper course of action when one has done something unskillful is go sit at your shrine, light a stick of incense and try not to be so thoughtless in future. Maybe that's the nearest equivalent in my own experience.
In the Vajrayana, confession is a specific part of the so-called "preliminary practices" (ngöndro). It is one of the "inner" or "extraordinary" preliminaries, and consists in removing negative actions or "obscurations", namely karmic obscurations; the obscurations of negative emotions; conceptual obscurations; and the obscurations of habitual tendencies.
The removal of obscuration is done through the practice of meditating on the Teacher as Vajrasattva and reciting his mantra (in the context of ngöndro, this is supposed to be done 100,000 times). In what is widely considered the most important commentary on the preliminary practices, Patrul Rinpoche's The Words of My Perfect Teacher (Altamira Press, 1998), one reads:
There is no harmful act that cannot be purified through confession. (...) However, purification only takes place when you confess sincerely in the right way, using the four powers as antidotes. (1998, p. 264)
The four powers are the essential elements in the practice of confession: the power of support "is provided by taking refuge in Vajrasattva and cultivating the intention and application aspects of bodhicitta" (1998, p. 265); the power of regretting having done wrong "comes from a feeling of remorse for all the negative actions you have done in the past" (ibid.); the power of resolution "means to remember the faults you have commited and to resolve never to commit them again" (1998, p. 266); and the power of action as an antidote "involves accomplishing as many positive actions as you can, as an antidote to your past negative actions" (ibid.).
For further reading on the subject, I recommend Khenpo Ngawang Pelzang's A Guide to The Words of My Perfect Teacher (Shambhala Publications, 2004), part 2, chapter 3.
Confessing faults is very importand for oneself and in cases of relations and communities.
Putting any effort into a community where such is not used, or assossiate is not for ones benefit but for long time pain.
For more, feel given here: [Q&A] Confession in (Buddhism) tradition of the Noble Ones
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