Recently i was wondering about Love and these thoughts came to my mind, i want to know if they are correct or not.
As to Buddhism all sorts of love is "Attachment". And the is no such thing called a person.
So essentially the "Love" we fall in can be explained as...
Part 01 :- Sam saw Jenny and he fell for her the second he saw her.
(Sam's eyes saw light which was recognized by his brain+mind as a woman. His mind remembers that Sam is straight so it immediately start to examine Jenny's body. There is an understanding in Sam's mind about his taste and it sees Jenny is a perfect fit. As Sam hast lust+attachments for such a body,mind starts a stream of thoughts signaling that there is a hot girl nearby.)
Part 02 :- They date for sometime and go to a serious relationship.
(Sam and Jenny both find their attachments in real life and decide to hold onto it.)
Part 03 :- Sam and Jenny are married now and its been 9 years. (They both did not wanted to loose what they found because of the strong attachment they built in their own minds. The attachment and fear of loosing+fear of not finding a substitute kept them together for nine years.)
What i see is that there are two minds at work trying to find attachments in real life. And then two minds find those in the image of two bodies. Then the attachments grow and the minds get more attached to each other's bodies as it works as the Identity.
Is this correct according to the teaching or is it wrong?
If there are wrong details what are the correct forms of them?