If a kind and generous Christian died 20 years ago today, 21July2015, might their rebirth have resulted in there being a 19 year old person in the human realm now? I want to assume that the kindness and generosity perhaps trumped the ignorance about samsara, resulting in a new individual array of aggregates and store consciousness inclined toward learning about Buddhism and Nibana. I wonder this basis Theravada approach to rebirth.
I think it's difficult to talk about rebirth as if it were a sure thing: for example because kamma comes from a being's previous life, but it also comes from the life before that, etc.
"The [precise working out of the] results of kamma" is said to be unconjecturable.
Actually being able to directly see others' karmic destinations is one of the miraculous powers attributed to the Buddha:
Then, the records tell us, in the first watch of the night he directed his concentrated mind to the recollection of his previous lives. Gradually there unfolded before his inner vision his experiences in many past births, even during many cosmic aeons; in the middle watch of the night he developed the "divine eye" by which he could see beings passing away and taking rebirth in accordance with their karma, their deeds; and in the last watch of the night he penetrated the deepest truths of existence, the most basic laws of reality, and thereby removed from his mind the subtlest veils of ignorance. When dawn broke, the figure sitting beneath the tree was no longer a Bodhisatta, a seeker of enlightenment, but a Buddha, a Perfectly Enlightened One, one who had attained the Deathless in this very life itself.
From the Tibetan Buddhism perspective this is a possible outcome. In philosophy David Lewis calls these possible worlds. It might even be true in the actual world. Which is the world we live in.
The bardo and rebirth would have to happen first of course.
Also human rebirth is considered to be rare, rarer still is human rebirth that is interested in the dharma. But it seems if the worldview is correct, that human rebirths would become more common.
But all that aside, the human realm is still Saṃsāra. Being reborn is rough, relearning everything takes time. Where they were born and to what families will determine what they learn and in what order. I think that covers the first question.
As for the assumption after the first question, kindness and generosity is said to result in wealth, and being in safety respectively.
I do not understand what you mean in your last sentence though. You mention one of the 3 vehicles.
To be born as a human, you need to keep to the five precepts well. To be born to a Buddhist family, you need to dedicate your good deeds towards attaining Nibbana. If your friend died 20 years ago, he could be 20 human years old now, wherever he is born, unless he died again.
Householder PaPa, interested,
Causes have their related effects, but is never sure when seeds rip. Acts of giving, letting go, generosity... have their effect: heavenly existances, wealthy human existance, a pet in an american family... and effects are not linear. One could gain wealth right the next moment on an act of generosity, years or existances later.
How ever, the more such gets habitual and not single good moments in between not so good, the more thoughts, speech and deeds toward generosity are performed, the more conditions (Nissaya) or strong conditions (upanissaya) one builds up. Such is called the training of perfection (paramis).
Now it is natural that one having joy in giving, when hearing about right virtue, is able to listen and, as a gift matching much more around, he would easy then to take on it... and so on.
Good Christians, joy in their fundamental practice, if meeting the Dhamma, have often much more possibilities to attain it then many "Buddhist".
But back to your friend, beloved. Since most being, after human existance, not having observed the eight precepts and holding wrong views, falling upward, in animal realms, hungry ghosts...
This is why people dedicate offerings and merits toward those beings, objecting their beloved, and for one who had done merits could such even receive.
Since it does not make much sense to speculate around who or where ones previous beloved are, knowing that there is hard any being having not been ones near, one looks after the best for all and any time.
If people/beings would not have Nissaya/Upanissaya with each other, how would they meet each other? Something worthy to consider, as a stranger could/would hardly give advices for ones long benefits.
So good if you nurish your interest toward Buddha Dhamma and Nibbana further, because what gets no food, inwardly, outwardly dies off for one soon and seldom it happens, very seldom, that one has Upanissaya toward the Tripple Gems. Such is not for sure!
The Buddha made a simile in regard of next birth: like one throws a stick through the air, in might land on one end, the other, or on the side.
So in regard of your father (others as well): Dendicating all merits, even small to all others, starting with parents, teacher, Noble Ones, is a very importand practice even if seldom done in the west.
(Note that this gift of Dhamma is not dedicated for trade, exchange, stacks or entertainment but as a means to make merits toward release from this wheel.)
Rebirth is using the conventional/conditioned truth of suffering, 'I, me, mine', to extrapolate, infer, into the unconditioned truth of the end of suffering, 'not I, not me, not mine'.
Majjhima Nikaya 27 does not allow for inference to grasp ultimate truth, only direct observation. In this respect, if you engage with rebirth, you are already one step away from the Tathagata's message of the cessation of suffering, as opposed to his message on suffering.
The issue is Dhamma is regular, without heights or extremes. Bardo naturally creates the extreme of existence and non-existence, as is therefore philosophically unacceptable. Spontaneous but memoryless continuation of the conditioned - that has NOT reached the unconditioned - is the only option that is not irregular.
That the conditioned randomly (not chaotically, that is still mathematically defined) wobbles around the mathematical approximate of emptiness that is '0', is irregular, so untenable for Dhamma.
Isms don't play any factor in the Newtonianesque law of kamma-vipaka. Intentional action and the result of intentional action, gives no concern for 'isms'.
Wisdom - the ideological space, and concentration - the supramundane path, are considered supreme within Dhamma, but that is different from the morality section.
There is no supremacy within Dhamma with respect to morality. Intentional action to non-harm, non ill-will, will bring benefit whether acted on by a murderer or by a saint.
A good Christian, within Dhamma - subject to accepting 'I' - will be reborn where they stand with respect to their morality.
It's hard to say where he is born (whether in bad places, human world or hevans) by referring to what he did in his normal life. Why I'm saying this is according to the Sotaapanno Sutta: The Sotaapanna ('Stream-winner') (quoted below) only stream-winner (or above) has the guarantee that he will not go to hells. That means only stream winner (or above) will not get unhappy births which are Thirisan (animal's world), Pretha, Asura or Narak. This also doesn't imply that only stream-winners (or above) can get happy births. It's only about the guarantee.
There's a story of a lady called
Mallika in buddha's days. She did a big almsgiving (dāna) called
asu disi dāna those days. But her immediate re-birth was an unhappy one. Why? it's because she was not a stream-winner. So nothing can be guaranteed. But the good work she did has gone to her
karma and she will get those back in one day. (if my memory is correct and she spent only 7-days in unhappy birth and after 7 days she got a happy birth again).
This is why being a stream-entrant/winner is so much in our life. And that's what Buddha has advised to do as the first thing in our life.
"And when, monks, the Ariyan disciple understands as they really are the arising and the passing away, the attractiveness and the danger, and the deliverance from the five groups of clinging, he is called an Ariyan disciple who is a Stream-winner, not liable to states of woe, assured of final enlightenment."
If you attain stream entry in this lifetime, your next birth as a human being is assured. Stream enterants take next birth at most 7 times, as a human being, before they reach ultimate enlightenment.
To reach stream entery you must duplicate, understand, contemplate and realize the complete teachings of Buddha. Then you must make 100 days of concentrated effort of meditation. This process is described in the ancient Taoist scripture, Secret of the Golden Flower. I recommend reading The Secret of Secrets vol. 1&2 for complete understanding of this process.